I've noticed on a lot of posts that you bring up the 5LLs a lot. Here is my question. My W's LLs are physical touch and quality time. How do I accomplish that when we are together? I mentioned the hug request at mediation by her. Your thoughts on that?
Women don't love men they can't respect. Before you can fill her emotional needs you must get her respect back. You get her respect back by stating and enforcing the boundaries regarding the OM.
I would be very affectionate (PT) and do lots of things with your kids (QT). She will notice that you are loving on them, this is attractive. You start re-introducing the LLs when she becomes your friend again - no OM. Put her on a cake fast.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
