Fair enough about the pursuing as soon as I said it I wished I hadn't.
Interesting and frustrating weekend again ...
Okay she is truly conflincted.
We spend alot of time together w/o the kids on Saturday. I kept it really light and as fun as possible.
Some converstation started in which she said basically.
She is having a mid-life crisis and doesn't really know what she wants.
I said I know you are but do you really think running away is going to fix anything?
She said she didn't know and ended the conversation. I followed her lead.
I told her at the end of the day I had a really fun day with her and she said she did too.
Since we are sleeping in the same bed all night Saturday she was spooning and cuddling with me.
That was nice but also frustrating and it's been so long since we have had sex I'm a bit well FRUSTRATED!!
When she woke up on Sunday she says "what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom". Which I took to mean don't touch me today.
Sunday we didn't see each other much. Her mom came and stayed the night in our new house and she wanted to go out for coffee with me?
Nothing heavy. She seems to really want to hang out with me. I see the kids are really driving her crazy as she is a SAHM.
Because she was/is planning on leaving she has gotten a job and was talking about that last night. She did say "I think you are right about me working"
At the start of all this I said that I thought that alot of her "issues" were steming from the fact that she needs to go back to work. SAHM for six years is enough to drive anyone nuts. Of course she feels bad about our yougest (3) been put in allday preschool.
I just responded buy saying "I think your work will be good you need to miss us all a bit".
She liked that response.
Anyone have suggestions on how to direct or steer this "confusion" in the right direction?
The outward signals seem that she isn't as hell bent on leaving but of course I have not idea whats going on in her head.
