Yes it does need to be brought up about this OM and setting a boundary, thank you for pointing that out, I sure didnt even think about that. From what I gather X is slowly weening him away or something. I think X is wanting confirmation that I am willing to pursue her so she can tell him to take a hike. She mentioned she doesnt want other people living around our kids. Something to the affect of the days X doesnt have kids its ok or something to see people. I am confused just as you probably are reading that.
The X bought her house from her brother for what he owed on it. This OM had residence there, and I dont know if he did at her other place she had moved from that she had been in for a year when she moved in June or not. So the whole another guy has lived there with my kids and all is kinda crappy. And the house I put a bid on a month ago that I wont find out until Xmas Eve if I got it or not is a couple miles out of a small town and is a few houses down from OM parents where I think he stays at now, and to add to that, X's high school bf lived on that road during that time!
I have to be careful about my decisions. That house is a great deal and the problem is I have put down my earnest money, but someone came behind me and put a cash offer for less after me and its up to the bank to decide what to do with the property. No matter what, I think this is great for me to get this house and need to follow thru with it regardless what happens between X and I. I didnt know when I first started looking at this house OM family lived down the road.
Yes hopefully the odds have been increased to make it great if it does happen.
