Now is a good time to let those feelings come now, so you can start working through them; that way, if and when he does drop the EA/PA bomb, you can respond coolly and confidently.
Trent, that is SO well-stated, and something I wish EVERYONE would do (along with deciding, as they go into mutually-agreed-upon no-contact/transparency/reconciliation, just how many "strikes" of re-contact they are going to allow).
The mistake we all do is that we try to make these potentially life-altering decisions, in the heat of VERY difficult moments and confrontations, which is NOT when you want to be making them!
