My plan was to write a bit more than this, but it's been busy and right now I need some fairly specific advice. My former SIL's mother is in the hospital and apparently dying; sounds as if they're declining aggressive treatment. xSIL drove in from out of town by herself to be here. My inclination is to stop up and visit briefly, offer my prayers, whatever. Of course, no discussion re:xH. Hospital visits I'm very good and comfortable with, used to do it for a living. Any thoughts?


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012