She only mentioned the debt, but she didn't say we should discuss how to handle the debt, she said she will only go if I am ready to say whether her name stays attached to the debt. Certainly needs to be dealt with, but again, it's all about her, her, her. Putting a stipulation on whether or not she will attend is just a little game to see if she can get control of me and the situation. The funny thing is, we already decided how we were going to handle the debt.
Here's how I replied:
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I'm not interested in playing games. Are you coming or aren't you? I don't want to waste my time or the mediator's time.
