Got an email from the X yesterday, whoaaaaa!

[dday101798]

ridnic,

This all sounds all too familiar my friend. Trust your instinct and let it ride. According to my X, who though she was so wrapped inOM to marry him, blah blah, blah, she found herself realizing the same, missing family, missing us all together, the little things done around the house she never took note of and not having any emotional tie to OM as it "still belonged to me".

So, I hear ya on being confused from time to time. You have one advantage tho in that OM has been for length of some time, that is good.

My XW is moving back in to our marital home (rented as well), I'm really having a hard time with that. I have vowed to never step foot back in that house, but finding it too hard even after just the few times we've been together, to say goodnight and part ways. Good luck with that.

edit - and yes, it does suck that it takes some of them all this to finally 'get it'. But, better late than never, and maybe, just maybe, that increases the odds that everything will be great?