I am not trying to make light of your pain but you have a choice to make here. Are you going to take back control of your life and your feelings or are you going to let a woman that has moved on have that kind of power over you?
Very relevant question. It's easy to realize that this must be done...but it's harder to do. Nonehteless, it has to be done in order to go on and live a happy and healthy life.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.