As far as how I am doing... My friend suggested I have H take the kids. She says I shouldn't have to give up my life because he left. Oy!
H texted me to see if he could visit. 3/4 said no way. He texted me that they are going to have to get used to it eventually, so I replied that they'll settle in soon, but right now they need to feel how they feel. I suggested that if they don't come around by the end of the month, HE could force them to visit. He replied, how about WE force them to visit.
Ummm. no. I'm not forcing them. I told him I would continue to tell them he loves them, but if he wants to force them, he'll have to do it.
