The only way you are going to feel better about it is to talk about it with him. Ask him point blank, Are you having an A?
If he's not, he will say "No, I'm not."
If he IS, he will say "No, I'm not."
That is useful . . . how?? All cheaters lie. PERIOD.
When my wife was having her affair (with a guy 20 years younger than her, who was going thru the police academy, to become a cop), I caught them red-handed at OM friend's house for a hook-up. My voice-recorder caught them talking about how to spin it, and OM said "I'll get _______ to lie for us; to say that he was there with us, and we were all just playing video games."
