Repairing trust is the responsibility of the party that broke it in the first place. Unfortunately, he doesn't seem to understand that concept. He knows that he destroyed his integrity but doesn't have the tools to start building it again. That is where a C would be able to help him.
I forget K, did you say he won't go to a C or is he just leaving it up to you to find one? He really needs IC and you need MC together. Since it's not very widely practiced in Greece it makes it more difficult, but not impossible.
You have made your needs and wants clear. What he chooses to do with that information will pretty much determine how invested he is in repairing the M.
Just my opinion of course......
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T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!