Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Coach, either you are the eternal optimist, or you are so familiar with this stuff, you see things in my sitch, that tell you what is really going on, that I cannot see for the life of me. I think you are familiar with it. I am continuing to DB, but to be honest, all I'm seeing from her, is very irresponsible behavior, and an unwillingness to acknowledge it. The solution is easy to write/talk about, the hard part is the work involved, and a willingness to accept that whatever happens, I will be a better man because of it. I have not heard from PI, could be a few more days as he said it could take up to 5 days to compile report. I am scared of what I am going to learn.