Saw H yesterday at son's bball game for the the first time in 5 months...yes I was nervous but he came in and sat right next to me...well, you could have put a person between us but it was close enough...he didn't look at me much but when he did I noticed he looked really tired...his eyes were sad...at least to me..I was upbeat, even chuckled a few times and smiled alot...we did talk about son as he was playing...
When we left, H walked out with us and said a few things to son as we were getting in the car...I just go in and started the car...
I went to Bingo with my mom last night, she's been bugging me to go....while there this is what happened.. I went to get food, and saw a girl I went to school with, she was working, I hugged her and she said, "I saw your husband not too long ago".. " I said, X....she said, "yeah he told me"...he's with the girl who is my neighbor...my heart dropped....i was at a loss for words...all I could come up with at the time was, "well, next time you see her, trip her for me..." she laughed....sry....
So, my H is out telling everyone we are not together and showing off his OW...all I can do at this point is give him what he wants....the divorce...I'm sure he didn't tell her the ENTIRE story....he probably skipped over a few things.
I thought I handled myself well at the game..then geezzzz somehow he always steps in to ruin the day....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
