If people see you out reading books about relationships... If you talk about the books your reading. If you talk about what your learning on relationships to friends, this can be a 90.

A better 90 / 180 People talk. Voices carry.

If we can see through your thinly veiled attempt of clinging on and persuing when he is in an affair. Just think what he thinks... Reread that post from me last week.

Stop calling her a GF. Start calling her OP. OP = Other Person.