Originally Posted By: oldtimer
"People react to you by how you make them FEEL."

Indeed.

I'm sorry, but no one makes anyone else feel anything. That is taking way too much responsibility. One can contribute to an outcome by their behavior, but that is all.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012