The pain is still there..

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Incidentally, the truth is you are made in the image of God and you have tremendous value. your abilities are many and you have scores of characteristics that others admire. God hasn't given up on you. In spite of all that has happened, God still intends to bring you to wholeness. He has strong and positive purposes for your life. - Dr. Gary Chapman, aauthor of The Five Love Languages