Good Kevin..as long as it was good with your girls there is nothing wrong with being independent.

I hate the buddies thing too. When my exh is in the middle of the crap that he does I wanted nothing to do with him. I barely spoke. I couldn't. I was wanting to get my own life back and being his buddy was so not helping. When he came to see baby I said hi and went and did my own thing. There was no idle chit chat in person or text. Now, we talk all the time...may be good for him, but I am scared out of my mind.

BTW, your Boys lost yesterday. They are our team too and it was sad.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!