Donna, I am facing the 'fake it for the holidays' sitch myself. You are asking yourself some good questions. Your answer (not like I have any answers, mind you) may lie somewhere between having better boundaries and fewer expectations. I attended a social function w/ H recently after he said I was overthinking it...but, I had really good boundaries. It worked, and I actually had a little fun. love, Goldey
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
