How does it feel? What has he said, in the way of reassurances, or any honest reflection on why he left, or how he feels about you? When my bf wanted back, the switch in him was definite. He was gone for 18 months and when he 'turned' as they say, there was the old look back in his eye and he also told me, for the first time since the bomb, that he loved me.
If he is only thinking about coming home, then perhaps you could say thanks for being honest and that you would very much like to work towards that, when he feels ready to?
Al
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I am so sorry that you have to go through that I have been there. my husband and were back and forth for months. It is not easy but make sure he is ready. So in a few months from now you are not in the same boat again.
