Originally Posted By: sandi2
Regarding moving back into the house Wednesday.......if you are having anxiety attacks and you are obsessed with your W, then how are you going to be a strong, self-confident man that your W will respect and desire? I am usually one for suggesting that the man move back home, but with your codependent problems....I am wondering if it would make you more detached and independent to live alone until you can overcome that.


Sandi2,
I understand what you are telling me. After thinking about this for a while I'm reevaluating and thinking about putting it off for another month.

I've decided that I'm going back to my MD and getting back on anti depressants. I've tried several previously but did not like how some made me feel (Wellbutrin) or the side effects (celexa,Seratonin) my last one was Lexapro and I stopped taking it after about 4 months (though I was ok).... I also was prescribed xanax to help with anxiety but have concerns about dependency on medications..

I appreciate your advice, if you have any other to offer please do..


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09