It's pretty hard for the WAW to see the changes come after she's left the M. As you've read before, "why did you have to wait until I left to do what I had been asking" seems to be the mantra. The WAW is so completely opposite of the spectrum from the LBH is her way of thinking. He has just finally reached the place she had been pulling and tugging on him to join her years ago. So, yeah, she p*ssed that it took spliting the R apart to wake you up and get your butt to moving.
If she can get past the anger, then she'll start to reach some of the next stages (hopefully). So stick with it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
