I wonder what happens after they get really mad? I think cutterbug explained it in P17's thread. I am always scared that anger will propel them to file for D. But I am a conflict avoider! Lucky for you, it doesn't sound like you are! So are you able to face that possibility?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004