I can't remember...did you see a lawyer/counselor yet?
But guess what...you don't have to respond. Remember that my WH brought up divorce talk but hasn't in 5-6 weeks now. I NEVER bring it up.
Also, please trust yourself when it comes to interacting with your WH. If you think following our advice is wrong for him, then feel good about ignoring it! Hopefully you have found some similarities in someone's WS to get ideas as to how to react.
BE CALM, COLLECTED, CONFIDENT, COOL. (another poster's phrase!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004