DBD, Thanks for asking, yesterday the pickup went great. I was running just a little late and I came blowing into the parking deck with the music blaring, big smile on my face as if I did not have a care in the world. W was standing at the curb with S9 waiting on me they both took a step back as I wheeled up and rolled down the windows and practically shouted, "What's going on buddy" to my S9. He hopped in the backseat and closed the door. I said to my W "I am glad he got to spend time with you, I will talk to you later" and threw it into drive and took off, music back on full blast. Victory!!! No BS, weak LBS, spineless, woe is me attitude, nothing but "Life Couldn't Be Better for Me!!!". Never heard another word from her that day. I do know that SIL was in town with her and SIL would be like the SS Nazi police, there was no way my W was going out, but I did!!! Nothing happened but I was hoping that my W would call the house and say goodnite to the children D13, S9. never happened she is still mess up in the head. But still I was out watching football, having a beer or 2 or 4 and there were a couple of women noticing me. No interest on my part but felt good to be noticed. Ended up at the bookstore and a movie by myself which was fine w me. Woke up feeling like a million bucks today. Got kids up to go to church, no problems. My W contacted me at 11:30 to pick up S9 at church (D13 hates mom). I forgot the casual clothes for S9 so my W had to follow us back out to house 10 miles away. (opps, sorry) She needed to come out anyhow to get supplies for beaded jewelry she makes on the side. (better than going out to bars to meet OM). D13 went to her room and locked door so my W could not interact w/ her. I spent the next hour with my W moving all her supplies (beads, wire, findings, etc.) to her car while S9 was playing video games. It actually felt normal, we were helpful to each other, we joked around, she commented on the fact that I got dust on my good pants. I commented that her hair was a little longer. When everything was loaded in the car I could swear that she wanted to hug me. I thought she was going to send S9 to the car to wait while we talked in the foyer. I could really feel the attraction but kept my composure. I smiled, was nice but that was it, Nothing else.
I think I pissed her off today. I told her that I would get her desk for beading jewelry together with a couple of friends later this evening. I backed out after our best friends had me and D13 over for dinner. I actually stood up to her on bringing S9 all the way out to house instead of meeting half way. Another Vicory!!! In the immortal words of James Brown "I feel Good!!".
Sandi, That is it, she is taking advice from family that refuses to see the truth. They do not want to think that their precious little niece or SIL could be capable of the things she has done or the the lies she has told to perpetuate the acts. She is broke and there is no way she could retain a lawyer to pursue any type of lawsuit. Her aunt and SIL have no means either and I just got off the phone w her MIL and she is on my side and additionally she cannot support a lawsuit. Her contacting a lawyer and possibly paying a consultation fee is a smokescreen to which I am not going to play into. I am conducting business as usual until something else changes. I will continue to be as nice as I can to my W w/o being a doormat.
Formerly "missherlove"
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