I'm just trying to be the neew never lose my temper, humorous, kid loving, helping, mentally healthy H.
On a more practical note, I'm just trying to be thoughtful and caring for no other reason than I want to. If I am making some hot tea for myself, I make some for her as well. I put on my iPod with loud music and grab a vacuum to help her out - it is OUR house I'm helping to clean. I have conversations with her that allow her to talk about things in which she's interested. Jokes help too-man, do they help.
But the key is I do these things not to score points, but simply b/c I want to.
