Can I save my marriage?

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Well everybody, I'm glad I took your advice and didn't say anything to him.

New news...so last night when my friend was telling me all this she mentioned that she asked another friend if she knew anything. Well the other friend said she heard that my H's best friend had gotten with her but no that my H had gotten with her. I didn't think much of it.

Today my best friend asked her husband who is a police officer as well if he knew any of this. He too said that he knew H's best friend had a fling with her but not H. He went on to say that she is not his type, and there is no way my H would be with a girl right after his best friend had something with her. So now, I don't know. I saw a pic of her on facebook and she truly is not my husbands type. I can't see him even taking a double look at her. He likes plain jane girls. This girl has a "rihanna" replica hair do which is shaved in the back with a little bit of bangs. Horrible haircut. My H DOES NOT like short hair on a girl. He comments on that all the time as a good friend of mine has short hair and he hates it. She is also tattood like crazy. She has tatoos everywhere! On her arms, shoulders, even up her neck. She is just someone my husband would find to be a huge turnoff. But like my best friends husband said, he knew that H's best friend got with her, he would also know if H got with her. The police station is small, these things don't stay a secret. He is good friends with H and he said he just can't see it.

On Halloween this year also, we went to the station to show off the boys, and H took me into the dispatch room which is where she works and she was there. If there was something going on he would not have taken me in there.

So definitely no facts to go on. But I will keep my ears and eyes open.

Thanks again everyone. Love all your support and encouragment! Its what gets me through this!