Oh GF, I'm so sorry. He has OW and she's 16? Seriously? I don't remember hearing that before.
Hang in there, just remember that he's completely miserable. Yes, it's depression, and he's probably drinking because of that. Stay strong, and keep posting.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK