Karen,

You will definitely be in my prayers tomorrow. As for the time-sharing, let the judge do the compromising. You have to start asking for the best case senario. If you start with a compromise, you'll get less that what you are prepared to settle for. The good thing is that you're kids are old enough to tell the judge who they'd rather live with and that will weigh in the decision. I would start with Fri, Sat, Sun night every other week. You should get the school week all the time.

Good luck and I hope your voice is better.
-J


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