since wed. he has not called or texted and now it's sunday night around 715 he texts, "Hows my kid"

i have not responded, don't plan to. to him asking how she is doing is like giving her air. he says, well atleast i asked?"

i need some advice on how to proceed, keep being silent or come out with boundaries to see if he steps up to the plate? or just keep waiting?

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline