Thanks for the good thoughts all!!! Jeff, so good to hear from you always. No guilt about not posting; you have your hands full I know!
I'm still not 100% sure about custody, and the L says I have to be 100% decided tomorrow am by 9:15 (when hearing starts). I was prepared to let him have the Sunday and Monday night and every other Sat. night he wanted, but not the Tuesday, but I'm torn b/c of the school info he keeps from me. So...I'm going to pray tonight and hope I wake up with the answer. If anyone has any thoughts on this, I would so appreciate it if you have time. I know y'all know the sitch as well as me, probably better, b/c it's easier to see others sitches rather than your own (at least for me).
I'm so stressed-if I can get any sleep tonight I'll be thrilled. The L asked me a couple questions open-ended about for example why I think I should have majority of the custody (she corrects me all the time it's called time-sharing now), despite X living way closer to the kids's schools. I said well that's the only positive factor he has! Pretty much anyway. I will try to remember though to add in about the continuity of not radically changing custody of the past 15 years, and my virtual schooling of S16, etc. It will be so wonderful to have this over!!!
