I tried to understand what she was talking about, but had a hard time conducting constructive communication. I now had a dilemma--go with her to her venue and risk not getting along, versus stay at home and connect again at a later point. I decided to go with her, even though we were running almost two hours late, as her impression was that I made a commitment to go with her. Not going would have caused harm to relationship building efforts.
Cl... You have made the right choice buddy
Originally Posted By: Concerned_Listener
Her friend was there and wanted to dance with her like nothing happened last weekend. He had a public display of anger calling her profanities in public, because he thought she was dancing too close to someone. My W turned him down.
Dude this alone would have made my evening Way to go.
Good work on letting the “offer” go without making a big deal of it. YES buddy connect when ever possible….You and I are going to make it through this either with a better marriage or at least we will be wiser men
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
