Pls help--confused and fearful

[newmama]

Daybyday, that email does not say that you only want to talk to him if he wants to end the relationship or work on R. I think that is the message of NC.

To communicate about the kids looks like:
You can pick them up at 5. I'llbe back by 8. OR
Johnny hasn't turned in his homework. Please look for it in his backpack.
Hi. Here are the kids. I'm fine, thanks. Bye.

TO THE POINT.

I think I remember another poster saying he never sent an NC letter- he just went NC.