Think OW is here in my house right now!

[Super Girl]

OMG! (((AFG)))

[SDFoundGirl]

Sorry, forgot, I got another text from him about 45 minutes after first one "Guess your not going to respond?". LOL, nothing else left to say so no i definitely will not be responding ever again.

AFG,

So sorry you've experienced this. Your H doesn't deserve you.

Right now is the time to summon your inner queen. A Queen is above it all: the petty interactions, the grimy peasants and their disease-ridden wenches, etc. A Queen, however, is secure in her personal power, and *that's* why she can rise above it all.

After all, a queen would not argue with someone beneath her. She would simply make the best decision for herself and her kingdom *no matter what* antics anyone threw her way.

That's not to say that the Queen doesn't rail and scream and weep in private. She has a heart--a big one--and sometimes things hurt. But she never shows that to the one who's wounding her. She just draws her boundaries with a detached but firm air, and lets what happens, happen.

YOU are dignified; YOU have self-respect and respect for your vows. When you *do* have to interact with H, remember that. Practice the amused smile, the checking your watch, the "I'm sorry you feel that way, but I have decided X."

You are a strong woman; I don't think I could have maintained that kind of self-control. I have no doubt that YOU will be 100% fine--and a stronger, better human being--in the end.

SD

[praying_in_GA]

AFG I am so sorry he did that to you. There is no excuse for that kind of blatant disregard for you.

[kara]

((((AFG))))

Unbelievable!!!

Congratulations on remaining calm. That must have taken all your inner strength.

My prayers are with you. That is a horrible violation of the peace and security that you should feel in your own home.

[Kimmie Lee]

What's next, more kitty pictures?

Seriously, was he dropped on his head? What sort of human being believes that this sort of behavior is normal?

[Greek]

Hi everyone - thank you all so very much for weighing in on this extremely crazy day. I'm going to post the play by play later on today/tonight. I'm at my parents house right now trying to figure out my next moves. As much as I'd love to do a retaliation move right now of putting his crap to the curb, don't know if that will help my legal case/stand. Consulting with a lawyer tomorrow.

AFG ~~~
I don't see it as "retaliation" to deny him the ability to share a home with you. I mean, what would it take for you to throw him out? Some behaviors demand a strong consequence and I believe this is one. He has violated every decency I can think of and gets to sleep in his own bed (the same bed) tonight. If he beat the stew out of you, would you let him in the house again? If it were me (and I know, I know - it's not and you have to make your own decisions) I would have my father there waiting on the door step to tell him that he better not try to take one foot in that door or hell will rain down on him. And the only contact I would have with him would be through the most successful lawyer in my city.

Greek

[Greek]

Sorry, forgot, I got another text from him about 45 minutes after first one "Guess your not going to respond?". LOL, nothing else left to say so no i definitely will not be responding ever again.

He is very scared.

[sandi2]

Maybe that wasn't perfume you smelled earlier. Or it may have been to cover-up what he's really been smoking.

I say let's hang him.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Hi everyone - thank you all so very much for weighing in on this extremely crazy day. I'm going to post the play by play later on today/tonight. I'm at my parents house right now trying to figure out my next moves. As much as I'd love to do a retaliation move right now of putting his crap to the curb, don't know if that will help my legal case/stand. Consulting with a lawyer tomorrow.

AFG ~~~
I don't see it as "retaliation" to deny him the ability to share a home with you. I mean, what would it take for you to throw him out? Some behaviors demand a strong consequence and I believe this is one. He has violated every decency I can think of and gets to sleep in his own bed (the same bed) tonight. If he beat the stew out of you, would you let him in the house again? If it were me (and I know, I know - it's not and you have to make your own decisions) I would have my father there waiting on the door step to tell him that he better not try to take one foot in that door or hell will rain down on him. And the only contact I would have with him would be through the most successful lawyer in my city.

Greek

This^.

I'm so sorry, AFG, but it's time for Hell-hath-no-fury.

Puppy

[Puppy Dog Tails]

P.S.

I do think you should reply. With a simply "Yes. The calm always comes before the storm, doesn't it?" ;o)"

And then go dark. And let him wet himself.

Puppy