Hi everyone - thank you all so very much for weighing in on this extremely crazy day. I'm going to post the play by play later on today/tonight. I'm at my parents house right now trying to figure out my next moves. As much as I'd love to do a retaliation move right now of putting his crap to the curb, don't know if that will help my legal case/stand. Consulting with a lawyer tomorrow.
AFG ~~~ I don't see it as "retaliation" to deny him the ability to share a home with you. I mean, what would it take for you to throw him out? Some behaviors demand a strong consequence and I believe this is one. He has violated every decency I can think of and gets to sleep in his own bed (the same bed) tonight. If he beat the stew out of you, would you let him in the house again? If it were me (and I know, I know - it's not and you have to make your own decisions) I would have my father there waiting on the door step to tell him that he better not try to take one foot in that door or hell will rain down on him. And the only contact I would have with him would be through the most successful lawyer in my city.
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I'm so sorry, AFG, but it's time for Hell-hath-no-fury.
