OK, so I do the shutdown real well... After a few invitation declines from the friends, they all start to sniff out a problem. I know it sucks, and you just feel like wallowing in your "pissedoffness." I say, allow it, but let's not get too comfortable.
Lay off the conversations w/H while he is away. Your house has to be a whirlwind of activity w/three teens, and the packs they travel in. You can't get too deep into the dark with all of that activity!
I need a nail fill and pedicure! (Never got to it Friday!)
I don't recommend snowboarding! It's okay while you're up, but once you fall, it's hard to get your as$ back up!!! (We went, and my H and I couldn't make it a third of the way down this hill. We're sitting there, laughing and pissed, and we hear, FROM WAY ABOVE US, "Hi, Mommy!" MY SIX YEAR OLD is on the chair lift above my head, as he got tired of waiting for us to make it down!)
I'll go back and re-read G's notes. I'm sure he is right. Or, at least offered something constructive at a time of "pissedoffness"!!
LOL Motherof3! We need a stern hand!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I know what you mean mind - it's a process for me - it's almost impossible for me to go from sad to mad so quickly. It takes me a little bit. I am choosing to speed the process. When I get mad it's on!
I'm setting a goal for my bday (March) to lose some more weight. I have to look ahead I can't bear to think about my day to day right now. It's the worst Christmas ever and I resent my H for this. I've never had a sad Christmas married to him. It really bothers me.
Anyway....I know I sound kinda down but I really am trying.
Don't worry I won't try snowboarding lol at least not right but I'd love to in the future.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Good for you for setting goals. Something to look forward to! In times like these its the things we look forward to that get us through these days. Good Luck!
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
It's on Mind - oh I'm definately keeping you in my prayers for your surgery.
I'm waiting for H to call me soon it's late in NY and he's getting back to his hotel room - he always has his 3-4 hour dinners. I don't even want to hear his voice - eek (green face)
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
