Should I be mad about the trip to New Mexico? I'm not sure. I kind of am, but kind of "not my business."
Remember, this is the guy that took her to the concert, loaned her money for rent, is fixing her car for free and paying for her trip down there.
If not mad, should I show appropriate affront if it's called for? I'm not sure. I'm too close to the sitch and can't see it through sensible eyes. I just don't want to lose an opportunity to do the right thing, whatever that is.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)