Luv. I'm following along from my phone in my kitchen, whilr drinking and cooking. I wa s goingtopsmack G for you, but I think he may havsome insight here. I think I can learn from this, as well.
HUGS Luv. Smack G!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
but for my own good I will try so so hard to stop thinking and over reacting with every single thing.
Yes, for your own good you are going to.
And for the next three days I'm upping the ante. You're now going to find and do SIX things that make you happy. You're going to STOP thinking about him and your relationship and start thinking about YOU.
It's time to GAL. This is why you are in the state you're in. That is why DB and DR insist on GAL. To keep you busy doing things you enjoy and keep your mind off him.
Hey Luv, I know you're hurt and angry. I know you're venting. You have every right to do that.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
Gno runs off sobbing... Ma! Sis M hit me!!! It's NOT fair! I wasn't even talking to her! She doesn't love me anymore.
Now you two. Can't we all just get along?
I feel your pain Luvless and can relate. I think there are a lot of WAS that could make different decisions, but of course, choose not to. Hurts like hell.
Now about those 6 GAL things. Give us a list. It really will start to make you feel better.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
I'd rather stay mad as hell and close up shop <snip> but oh does it feel so good!
Channel that anger into constructive uses. Go chop firewood
Luv, I'm NOT brushing your pain aside. I know it's real. The thing is we always have a choice. To use that anger to self-destruct or self-construct. I choose the second option.
She doesn't love me anymore. 
