Hey Luv, that quote I pasted in there... that's you too my dear. Just replace "she" with "he" and you'll see what I mean.

The two of you are building up forces on the front lines. The tension is palpable between you. All that's needed is one of you to drop a match and spark off World War III.

I DON'T WANT THAT TO HAPPEN.

One of you has to back down. You're the one here who is seeking help and unfortunately that means "You're It."