As an update we've had a pretty nice weekend. We've been talking more and she's even been a little physical with me. She even said ILY last night before bed. So I guess something is working.
I think the big switch she had is she picked herself up off of the couch and decided to go visit a friend next weekend. Just for her to take the initiative to fly across the country by herself is a positive step I think.
Of course there could be alterior motives to her trip. But right or wrong I'm going to trust her. I don't believe she's going to do something to jeopardize our marriage. I think she just needs some time away from it all to clear her head. I'm sure a lot of you will say it's a bad idea to let her go, but stopping her is only controlling, which is her major complaint with me anyway. I've told her I'm unsure of how I feel about what she's doing but respect her for taking initiative and getting grips with things.
So next week is going to be tough I'm sure. But I'm preparing for the worst mentally if necessary. Most importantly I'm working on me now.
I will keep everyone posted on the developments.
Lynn
ME: 37 W: 32 S11 D6 Together: 14 yrs. Married: 12 yrs. Previous PA: 8 yrs. ago Previous EA: 1 yr ago
