DBD, Sounds like your on the right track IMHO, just need to not slip up here and there, and I say that from experience with my WAW today. Don't beat yourself up about it, he is torn up too otherwise he would not have told the kids that he is working on the sitch. I think I would hold off on the email. It would not demonstrate that you are moving on, you would be critizing him. Put yourself in his shoes if you send that email you are still being his backup plan. I know you want to zing him but don't it will hurt your cause. I have to go now and eat at friends but will add more later tonight. Hang tough, this is the patience part and doing nothing is the "working on it or DBing" as you stated a couple of posts back. Write down on a calendar or journal that he told the kids he is working on the sitch. Okay really gotta go.
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