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when you first started DB, what did you do? there were a few similarities in situations, just wondering if anything was helpful at all?


I did all the wrong things at first. It was when I started listening to Gucci and Puppy that things started to turn. My wife thought I was dating and the jealousy factor was huge. She begged and begged to come home. I've made a lot of mistakes in my DBing though. I've let my emotions rule my actions way too much.

So, the wife called today and asked if again if I was going to let her come home. I said, I don't think so. Why not she says? I said, I don't want to be with with someone who is so angry. She said, you're angry too. I said, maybe so but I didn't leave my family after having an affair. She said, look I screwed up, can't I come home? She asked if I wasnted a divorce and I told her I believed so. She asked, if I was going to get a lawyer. I said I didn't know.

It still doesn't appear that she really cares and that everything is still about her. I don't really see much choice unless I want to subject myself to her temper tantrums for the rest of my life.

Last edited by AFWAW; 12/06/09 10:33 PM.

M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!