I know I've told you this before, but I can't help myself. Be careful of rebounds, sweetie. It's been a long time since you have been in a loving R and I'm sure it would not take much to convince yourself this friend was the "one" for you. Don't think I'm not giving you more credit than that....it's just that I've seen it happen too many times with others. Maybe you should "play the field" before deciding to decide.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!