AFG, I'm a newcomer to your sitch but will try to get caught up.

This is the time to take a stand. Get him out of your house now. Because if you let him get away with this it will only get worse (and I'm horrified at thinking about what could be worse than what just happened).

Sending good thoughts your way.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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