I think WAW comes in my (our) house to look around to keep the anger high about how much I have changed the decor of the house and how clean and tidy it is without her. Last summer, WAW told me and anyone else who listened that when she saw me doing housework (part of my 180s), it just made her angry because I didn't do it before.
Thanks for the sanity check on disagreements. Before the MLC, what was best for our kids was always paramount to both of us. It still kills me when I think of her not wanting the shots. She has drifted so far...
She got angry about my reasonably pleasant manner on the phone last night when she almost rudely asked if I would bring some things to her when I dropped off our boys this morning at her apt. She didn't even bother with a please for any of the requests. I pondered pointing out the disrespect but did not do so. Should I have?
Just picked up my S7 and S4 from her apt. She also got angry at my business-like manner towards her. I'm friendly enough at this point with a "hi" and "bye" but only reasonably pleasant words about business topics. Again, should I ask about the anger?
She is definitely emotionally invested in the OM. Not a lot of eye contact when we are together -- a clear sign of guilt during the past few months. I am trying to minimize all contact at this point. When she says a sentence, I say a few words, etc.
I have a lot of activities planned for Christmas week with our boys. I am on vacation that week. I plan to have them take ski lessons, go snowshoeing, do a little bit of volunteer work, attend church services, play lots of games, and open presents on Christmas morning. All will be sprinkled with lots of love and hugs. WAW was once invited to all of our activities, but I will rescind if needed. My parents will be visiting the whole week too (part of my 180s). I am so pumped up for a great time. Just need snow...
