My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[BeingMe]

Wow! Lots of comments about of what H'mama feels. Well, let me put mine in, if I haven't already. I got the impression this last little while, that she was hit by a holiday where she would normally be a busy person, visiting family, etc. She felt lonely, because D went to XH. I don't feel despair, just sadness for what is lost, but starting to move past it. I think, also, still a little angry, but so was I 18 months into the cr@p, even now I get a little angry, 4 years on. Such waste. I would be particularly angry finding that he had been cheating throughout the M. H'mama could've left a long time ago and not wasted so much precious time on a man who didn't deserve her.

I grieved (and still do) for the M I had in the earlier years, and is gone now, even though I am still with my H. I bet H'mama feels the same to some degree.

I hope you're having a nice Sunday, H'mama.