If you have a temp order in place and she's living in the house, why doesn't the order state who pays for the mortgage? I'm confused. If she isn't following the terms of the order, haul her a$$ back in front of the judge. If its your credit at stake, why aren't you paying that bill?
I know you're pi$$ed (I would be too), but you have to pull yourself out of the victim mentality ("the state is behind her" and there's nothing I can do I suppose). STOP it or you will continue to flounder exactly where you are right now. Sorry if that ticks you off, but its the truth.
Your sitch sucks (like everyone else here) and you can either pick yourself up and figure out how to fix it or stay miserable. Choice is yours man.
