Do you have a lawyer? Are you divorcing him or are you still working on things? I read back through your thread to get a feel for where you are, but catch me up. Are you done or what? Seems to me that if you were not done before, you should be now. AFG ~~~ what he has done is unbelievable ABUSE and DISRESPECT and beyond the pale of anything that I have EVER heard of EVER!
He is SORRY he caught you off guard with all THIS. THAT is what he is SORRY for???? Off guard - like "Gee, should have given you notice. Regret that I didn't." He is a disrespectful man-child who does not deserve anymore tolerance from YOU.
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