Some stand has to be made. If not police what? On this board I hate to tell a person to walk but something has to give. Leaving seems like admitting defeat. I am sorry, in this instance, if the police cannot be called, I have to admit I would probably wind up doing something that would require they are called

I certainly thing flower should ask/tell the OW to leave her house. IF the OW doesn't leave, I would still call the police and let them sort it out between the three of them.

Then on Monday go try to get yourself a restraining order to keep the woman out of your house. I am not a lawyer but there must be some kind of precedence for this kind of stuff.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted