Can I save my marriage?

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I just mean the relationship is over. I cant be with him after he has been with someone else. I also remember the friend telling me that the reason they re done is cause she wouldnt have sex with him. Brings tears to my eyes and makes me feel empty. Its one thing to leave me and another to leave me for another woman. My stomach is in knots I dont know if I can go without saying anything