Britt, does your husband have a history of abusive or violent behavior? has he ever been verbally or physically abusive towards you or your children? violent towards other men?
his drinking habits, does he have a tendency of losing his common sense when he is drinking, meaning he becomes abusive, violent, demeaning or hurtful, esp. towards you?
in your marriage, has there ever been some other man that paid attention to you? if so, how jealous did your husband become and what were his actions?
his recent controlling behavior towards you, has this been typical throughout your marriage?
I think it would be important that we know this about him now that you found out the obvious ...
